Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Choosing Names For Babies

Choosing Baby Names

Choosing a baby name for your child is almost like choosing his identity. Ever heard about the association

of a person’s name with his personality? That’s how our names really work. A name molds a person’s identity

like a cookie-cutter. So, better get that best baby name for your son or daughter. Read on for some tips on

how to provide that best baby name for your little angel.

1. Stop it already with the dictates of your family’s tradition. Choosing the right baby name does not have

to always rely on what your elderly relatives deem to be the best baby name. It is your baby’s name, not

theirs. So, better act like it. Once your baby is born he will be stuck with that baby name for life. That

means it’s not wise to just settle for any baby name that will suit your grandma’s or auntie’s taste.

2. Take a look of a picture of his future. You don’t want your baby to be always called with a monicker

that will forever ridicule him or will allow his playmates to make a big laughingstock out of him, right?

Research about the meaning of the baby name you are eyeing to give to your baby. Don’t consider Beelzebub

as a prospective baby name just because you heard it from a TV show and you find it cute. Don’t use Rodelfa

just because a certain Mexican TV show’s hunky lead actor is called Rodolfo. Just plainly saying yes to

your gutfeel, thinking of the people that pops into your head upon hearing somebody spout a certain name,

trying to follow a fad by naming your baby a certain celebrity’s (sometimes notorious) or NOT THINKING AT

ALL in giving your precious one his or her baby name are huge no-nos!

3. Consider reading the initials of the baby name you are planning to give your baby. Make sure they don’t

stand for anything funny, disturbing or something utterly stupid. Christine Sue Irving? What will happen on

the next episode? Alvin Stephen Stuart? He’ll surely remember not to get near any hole. Fran Ursula

Catherine Klein? Uh-oh! See? Can you imagine the sickening situation you may put your child into when he or

she grows up?

4. Go check your family tree once and for all. Some can’t still get away from some traditions regarding

baby name decisions, especially when they have a special bond with a certain family member that they want

that person’s name to be a part of their baby’s name. If your planning to still follow the tradition of

putting a part of your elder relatives’ names on your baby’s name, you have to know whether anybody else in

your family use that name too. You don’t want to confuse people when they’re calling a name that’s owned by

two. Ask around.

5. Don’t go for the overkill. Being too creative on thinking of a baby name can backfire, I’m telling you.

Examples are too unique spellings. It will be hard for the kid to keep on spelling his or her name to

people who only know the common spelling of such name.

6. Decide with your partner in coming up with choosing the best baby name for your sweet baby. It wouldn’t

be nice to be always blamed when people ask who chose that awful baby name, right? Okay, kidding aside.

Sharing on this kind of decision-making is a good way of furthering your bond as a couple, not to mention

the possibility of coming up with a better baby name. Remember that the “two heads are better than one”

thought also applies to dealing with the troubles of finding the most suitable baby name for your baby.

Sound, appeasing relatives and friends and avoiding embarrassing initials and discovery of disgusting

meanings are some of the major concerns that should be considered in your quest for the perfect baby name.

You might find them a bit taxing. But in the long run, you’ll see that doing your homework will make your

baby thank you when the right time comes. Happy baby naming!

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